Recovering from Failing Pharmacy School

Some failures are bigger than others. We deal with minor failures all the time, we shrug it off and don’t dwell on it. Other failures can stop you where you stand.

They can put your life in perspective and make you question what you’re really about. This is what happened to me. I had a moment where I thought “I’m failing Pharmacy School so now what do I do?”

This got me thinking, what happens if you find yourself facing a significant failure? I had no idea what to do but looking back on my experience, the best thing to do is realize failure doesn’t define you.

It’s good to give yourself a short time to mourn your loss then get back to recovering and reinventing your life.

For anyone who has not gone through a professional program, it’s not school as you know it. It’s a lifestyle, it’s a way of life and a majority of your time and attention.

When I failed out of Pharmacy School, I felt humiliated and demoralized. It was a hard process of getting into a school and once there it was harder to adjust to the lifestyle. Now you’ll have to make another adjustment.

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. ― Theodore Roosevelt

Life continues after failing pharmacy school

I had no idea what to do when I received the dismissal letter. To help you not make the same mistakes I made you should start planning your new life.

As you start over you will cycle through the stages of loss in some way. I did. For me, denial passed quickly.

Though the anger I felt towards myself and the school lasted the longest, I felt anger mixed with shame and embarrassment. I didn’t bargain but depression lasted longer than I thought it would. Acceptance was hard-won.

You will have to do an evaluation of how you failed, what you failed, and why you failed. Why look into these failures if you’re not going to try Pharmacy School again?

It’s so we can learn more about ourselves and how we make decisions. These will be your tools so you can learn from your mistakes and apply this lesson in future endeavors.

This is hard for high achievers, and yes if you made it into a professional program you are a high achiever. High achievers have a habit of taking credit for their successes and blaming others for their failures. It’s up to us to not let ourselves get caught in this mental trap.

For this kind of failure (and anything significant failure), we have to take a hard and honest view of our role in the event. You may have felt the instructors weren’t fair in some way, or they didn’t teach or evaluate fairly.

This may or may not be true but you have to look past that to yourself and your role.

Looking at my role in the event wasn’t easy but I realized that I was only going through the motions. My heart wasn’t into the program or the school.

I wasn’t pacing myself and not checking if I knew the material as well as I thought I did. It was an eye-opener to how I learn and understand what I’m reading.

If you’re in a program you have to be completely dedicated and I wasn’t; the result of failing Pharmacy School could have been predictable.

I felt like I could see the flaws in the program, how they weren’t being true to real life. I’ve had a lot of experience in the real world and I am older than some of the instructors and it all felt fake.

No matter what the program was or wasn’t, in the end, the failure was on me and no one else.

Redefining ourselves from our failures

I learned a valuable truth from failing Pharmacy School: I set the rules for my life so the responsibility is on me to create a new path.

Up to this point you’ve been doing we I was doing, defining yourself by what you do; I’m a student, I’m a Pharm.D. candidate; I’m a (blank). Learn from my mistakes, this is the wrong mindset.

You’ll have to learn to define yourself not by what you do for work or school but the values you think are important. These values will help guide your actions and decisions making process.

When you figure out what you value, your actions will have “heart” in it, a drive, or whatever you call the internal voice that keeps going when things are tough and people around you are telling you to stop. This is something I’m still learning to develop.

(A small rant) Some people would call it passion. I disagree with the whole follow your passion theory. We all hear this term thrown around like it’s a magical solution to everything. Follow your passion and you’ll be happy.

What if you don’t have a passion? What if you haven’t found your passion? I don’t know what my “passion” is, I’m still looking and may never find it. How would I feel if I never found my passion? It’ll probably feel like a failure like I’m not smart enough or good enough to know what I want.

I think that hurts us. We all can’t be Elon Musk but we can feel like a failure when we don’t have this powerful passion. Instead of following that passion, I think we should follow what we’re good at doing and put all of ourselves into it.

You can find a whole list of people who were great at things that weren’t their passions. Steve Jobs, whether you liked him or not, was very successful by NOT following his passion.

He wasn’t passionate about technology, he was into eastern philosophy and that lifestyle, nothing to do with technology. The point is, take chances (see Option 4) and find what you’re good at doing and put all of yourself into it. (end of rant)

If you’re here then you know things you want to do take time. Getting to professional school took 4 or more years but transitioning your mindset shouldn’t. But it will take an effort.

Transitioning to a new path and changing your mindset may take some time but if things were always easy then everyone would be a doctor of something. You’re going to feel anxiety, stress, fear, and anger and more.

The key to dealing with failing Pharmacy School is to stay positive. Don’t let it get to you or get in your way of changing. It got in my way for a little while but having support can help you correct your course so you don’t crash into the proverbial rocks.

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. ― Dale Carnegie

Taking a new path

There are a lot of options and you can blend options. I’m a blend of options 3 and 4.

Option 1: try again.
You’ll have to do a cost-benefit analysis of redoing your first year and adding to the cost of your student loans. Is it worth taking on the additional debt?

If you have a true drive for it then ask around, talk to your peers, to instructors, you’ve probably already spoken to administration.

Use this as a valuable learning tool. Talk to other schools and get their perspectives. You will need to find a way to learn from your failure and show you’ve changed for the positive in the next application.

Option 2
Go for a degree in a similar field (pharmacology, toxicology) or MBA. If you like it then go for the Ph.D. It’ll be cheaper plus you can do a lot with a master’s degree and you can turn a loss into a win if you can transfer credits at the same school to a different program.

Option 3
Pivot to something completely different. Do an honest self-evaluation of your skills, knowledge base, and drives. Don’t let opportunities pass by; say yes to opportunities when you would have said no.

For example, you might be a good writer but don’t really enjoy it, maybe take that writing opportunity. Who knows where it could lead?

Explore your options by volunteering in areas outside your comfort zone. You can’t know what you don’t know unless you explore and discover new things.

Option 4
Find what you’re good at doing and focus on making that your career. Work at it as a side hustle until you can monetize it and transition to full-time.

You’ll find this path is loaded with a lot of potential failures. The first few times you try doing something, you’ll probably fail. It happened to me but I used each failure as a learning tool.

Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it. ― Salvador Dalí

If you try options 2-4 then be aware you’ll always think about the program you left. Every time the school year starts you’ll think “this would be my P3 year.”

The month you would have graduated will lurk over you months in advance. Don’t let it bring you down.

The lessons I’ve learned from failing Pharmacy School were hard. Process the failure was harder but not impossible to recover from. In the end, you have to pick a new path, try new things, and learn what you’re really about.

You’ll have to learn from your failure and build on it or you’ll have a hard time moving forward and succeeding in whatever you choose to do. Lastly, be happy for your friends that made it.

Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor. ― Truman Capote

Final thoughts

Facing a significant failure is hard. It’ll challenge us on different levels: our capabilities, what we value, the direction our lives should go, our self-worth, and so many other emotions and thoughts about who we are as a person and our place in the world.

If we let these things get to us, they can form a mental quicksand that’ll create self-fulfilling prophesies around our failure. It’s easy to get caught up in the negativity but we have to fight it. We’ll think we aren’t good enough and only focus on the negative.

This will destroy our motivation to move forward and grow. I almost let myself fall into this cycle but I was able to pull myself out by focusing on something new and helpful for my recovery. It’s how this site was created. To share my experiences in failing and learn how I and you can recover and create something better.

If you’re reading this then you might be in the same spot I was in. If so, there’s hope for something more, something better if you don’t let the negativity control your actions. I’m proof that something positive can come from a significant failure.


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  1. I was dismissed just a few weeks back. I was in my very last year with just 4 months of work to go. I was ranked very high in my class, extremely involved in leadership roles…………unfortunately I was facing extreme domestic violence I neglected to deal with because school kept me busy. I was threatened by a loaded weapon during exam week, and to say my emotions were distracting was an understatement. Despite my police reports my teachers were not willing to work with me to save my grades and in the end the school dismissed me with no second thought. What hurt the most was knowing I never intentionally got involved with domestic violence yet everyone spoke to me as though I had… my leadership roles, my previous grades, my efforts and relationships that had been consistent throughout my entire time in school meant absolutely nothing. With just months left to finish, the school had no remorse for me as their student and gave me no second chances. I have told myself it is my fault and I did get myself in that position and I deserved everything I got from it including being dismissed but there is another part of me that believes thats not the correct way to think. At the end of the day i’m finding it very difficult to see the light at the end of this tunnel, I certainly feel like going to pharmacy school has been the worst decision I have made in my life so far. I have no idea how I will come back from the student loan debt I have acquired, the years I have lost, the credit I put on the line… now it feels like my entire life will be an effort to fix this bad bad decision to attend pharmacy school. I certainly knew life would come with mistakes but I sure as heck never thought attempting to acquire an education would be one of them. Anyway God bless, and to everyone on this post may the lord be on our side as we work through the postcollege journey!

    • Sorry to hear about these events happening to you. Have you tried seeking legal advice or escalating your appeal higher? The student loans will be difficult but there are other opportunities waiting for you. I hope things work out for you.

    • Hello and thank you for reaching out. I didn’t seek legal advice because I knew the program wasn’t right for me plus my grades were against me. Though if someone was dismissed outside of academic reasons then it couldn’t hurt to seek legal advice.

  2. I went through an academic dismissal from pharmacy school in November 2016. It was so hard coming home and telling my family about my failure. This was the first big failure in my life. I had lost a whole year and went back into my undergrad and I am on my way of finishing up my degree. If I had never had that first failure from pharmacy school, I would have been with my peers and would be halfway done with P3 year. Now, I do get somewhat upset, but I know that being academically dismissed in the first semester was way better than being academically dismissed when I am almost already done with pharmacy school. Now, I am taking the PCAT and going over all the mistakes that I had made. I have come to realize that failure does not mean the end of the world, but it means the start of something bigger and better.

    • Thank you for sharing your experience. Failing out was hard and I agree with your view, it’s all about leaning from our mistakes. I wish you the best of luck on the PCAT and your new attempt. Let us know how it goes.

  3. Thank you for sharing! I failed out of pharmacy school 3 years ago and it has impacted my life so much. I work SO hard to get into pharmacy and once I got in, I failed 3 classes literally by 1-5% (for one of my classes I had a 69%). My friends just graduated today which I am happy for them but it still kills me till this day that I am not there. I have thought so long about what it is that I love to do and I know its has do with healthcare-specifically pharmacy/medicine but I am still so lost. I appreciate you jotting down some options to consider.

    • Hello and thank you for reaching out and telling your story. I understand how their graduation can be bittersweet. The classes that got me were P1 semester 1 lab and a semester 2 med chem exam. I knew after the med chem exam I was done but I still did my month long clinical rotation. It’s hard to figure out what to do and it’ll take a lot of self reflection and honesty but I believe you can pick yourself up and work your way back. I wish you the best of luck.

  4. Thanks for the advice. I recently failed out of professional school and repeated twice and was academically dismissed. It’s been extremely hard to cope with. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

    • Hi, thank you for sharing your experience. It’s hard to deal with at first but it gets better with time; keep an open mind to new opportunities. I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors.

    • There’s not much you can do to prepare but I would recommend looking at the top 200 drugs using Quizlet. Reviewing them now should make it easier to memorize them later.